In her first visit to a prison, Ariel addressed a room of men at Karnet Prison Farm, speaking candidly about growing up under her father’s coercive control, the fear that shaped her childhood, and the devastating violence that shattered her family.
Her powerful message to the audience of prisoners was not one of blame - it was one of challenge and possibility. “You can’t change what brought you here,” Ariel told the men.
“But you can decide who you become next. Whether you have children or not, I’m begging you to become the father I needed mine to be.”
“Never allow your behaviour to scare your children or your partner away from being able to talk to you,” Ariel said.
The discussion - between a survivor of extreme family violence and the men society often sees only for their offences - offered a rare and meaningful opportunity for reflection, empathy and accountability.
Corrective Services Deputy Commissioner Jim August said Ariel’s visit resonated deeply with the men.
“Hearing directly from someone who has lived through the worst impacts of family violence is confronting but incredibly important.”
“Ariel’s courage reinforces why rehabilitation matters - because real change requires honesty, empathy and personal responsibility. Her message gave these men something powerful to reflect on.”
Ariel’s presentation, supported by Department of Justice’ is part of the State Government’s 16 Days in WA campaign.
Department executive members and staff also joined the Silent March at Forrest Place, paying tribute to victims of violence and demonstrating solidarity with survivors.
Corrective Services Minister Paul Papalia said the 16 Days in WA campaign is a vital opportunity to raise awareness about family and domestic violence.
“Ariel’s time with the men at Karnet Prison Farm was powerful and I want to thank her for having the courage to share her story to help spark change.
“Exposing prisoners to the life-changing experiences and personal stories of victim survivors provides important reflection for their rehabilitation and reintegration.”
Minister for Prevention of Family and Domestic Violence, Jessica Stojkovski emphasised how collective action and support can make a real difference.
“Ms Bombara is to be commended for generously sharing her deeply personal story to inspire change and protect others from the devastation of domestic violence.”
The sentiment was reflected in Ariel’s powerful call to the men at Karnet.
“I’m begging you to give yourself a better legacy than my father did and start your change today, because “You have power – not the power to control, but to protect, to speak, to heal.”
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