Understanding family and domestic violence

Learn more about what family domestic violence is, the different types of abuse and how to recognise it.
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Family and domestic violence, also known as domesitc abuse, is an ongoing pattern of behaviour used to coerce, control, or create fear for another person within a family or intimate relationship.

Family and domestic violence doesn't have to be physical, and it can affect anyone regardless of age, gender, religion, sexuality, social background, or culture.

If you think you might be experiencing domestic abuse, know that it is never your fault. Find resources to help you understand family and domestic violence here, including the types, signs and impact.

What is family and domestic violence?

Family and domestic violence involves controlling or fear-inducing behaviour. Find out what to look for.

What is coercive control?

Coercive control is family and domestic violence. Find out more about the signs, help and support.

How to recognise family and domestic violence

Recognising family and domestic violence can be hard, especially with someone close. Learn the signs.

Impacts of family and domestic violence

Find out the impacts of family and domestic violence and how it affects those experiencing it.

Stand up against family and domestic violence

Learn how you can help to stop violence against women and promote gender equality.

Promoting respectful relationships

Find out what healthy relationships look like, teaching children about respectful relationships, and more.

Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. Find out more about gaslighting and how to recognise the signs.

Love bombing

Love bombing is a tactic used to manipulate you into feeling dependent on someone. It’s a form of emotional and psychological abuse.
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Financial abuse

Financial abuse is a form of family and domestic violence that involves controlling or limiting access to money.
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Emotional and psychological abuse

Emotional abuse is a pattern of control where someone undermines your worth and wellbeing through harmful words or actions.

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